Language is one of the things that sets us apart as beings, one of the things that essentially  ⑴ us as humans. When language is used well it can elicit very deep feeling in others, motivate others to  ⑵ and define the nature of our relationships. Sometimes in poetry the juxtaposition（并列）of two words or a certain phrase can bring ⑶ to the eyes, call up a whole host of imagery and move us deeply. We have seen language recently used in the politics of persuasion, used for ⑷ or ill --- depending on your viewpoint. When we use language to ⑸ our true feelings to someone it can open and deepen the connection between us. Language is a very ⑹ tool. How we use language shapes our world both ⑺ and externally. How you use self-talk --- what you say to yourself about yourself and about the world directly ⑻ your experience of both yourself and the world. How you deliver communication shapes the way the world ⑼ you. We can use language more effectively in both spheres: internal and external and directly influence the health and power of our ⑽ relationships and our business relationships.